For most, Christmas can be one of the happiest times of the year. However, for those struggling with Dementia and their loved ones, this is often not the case. If this is your situation, here’s how you can care for your loved one this Christmas and help them make the most of the holidays with dementia.

1. Avoid Disrupting the Environment 

The holidays often bring about significant changes, which can be upsetting and confusing to those who have Dementia. To help ease this confusion, keep decorations to a minimum, and decorate gradually instead of all at once. Plan for gatherings and activities to be small, understated, and at a time that won’t disrupt your loved one’s daily schedule as much as possible.

2. Get Everyone Involved

Invited guests can be problematic. If you have company over, ensure everyone is aware of the situation. It’s best if dementia patients aren’t asked many questions or are bombarded with noise and chaos. Make sure everyone knows to be patient and give them time alone if needed.

3. Adapt Holiday Traditions

Keep in mind the limitations when planning Christmas activities for dementia patients. Plan simple, meaningful activities, especially those which might bring back fond memories, like looking at old scrapbooks or watching favorite Christmas movies. You can involve your loved one with crafts like baking cookies, focusing on the task rather than the outcome. If you’re planning any outings, make them brief and prepare to leave early if necessary.

Make Christmas Memorable for Your Loved One

It’s important to remember that no dementia patient wants to bring down the holidays any more than you do, and the change will be difficult for both of you. Make sure you keep your happiness and well-being in mind as you make the most of your quiet, relaxing Christmas this year.